I was very worried about what people think of me. When I express an opinion, I would like everyone’s reactions to the armchak. The older I got, the more exhaustive it was that it felt that he managed everyone’s expectations.
At some point I realized that the mania of approval was drained of my energy and blocks my growth. I began to notice how some of my closest friends, who are some of the zodiac signs, seemed to enjoy each passing birthday.
They moved to wish everyone to focus more on their internal meaning.
That’s what inspired me to dig in astrology and psychology to see if there is an example. It turns out that there are five signs that tend to take their uniqueness and take less care of a larger number.
Here’s what I discovered in my own journey and in countless conversations with enthusiastic enthusiasts.
1. Capricorn
I met with many Capricorns who started their adult life to prove their world. They are often ambitious and motivated by the stairs to succeed with a stable devotion. But along the road, they can catch an external authentication-title, status and recognition.
I am interested in the afternoon, very outdoor, realize that all these signs of honor are not enough if they sacrifice inner peace. They start to see that true respect is more rewarding than surface applause. Thus, they focus on pleasant bosses and colleagues to make their pleasure.
I remember talking to a goat friend who volunteered for every project to go to work, you just need to be considered indispensable. He burned the most on weekends and did not have time for personal passions. But in his 40s, he scolded additional tasks.
He told me that real success was not about applause. It was about real satisfaction. Carl Jung once told something about personality that wins the collective mask we often carry. For the goats, this new self-confidence is flourishing them over time, freeing them from the pressure of everyone’s hero.
2. Aquarius
I am a water, and I can say that we are well known that we are moving to the beating of our own drum. Still, in my first years I felt strange tension, wanting to be unique and I wanted people to accept me. I used to sound myxargtricities just to fit.
But something changed the moment when I realized that the real connection happens when you were unnoticed. The greats that I have received, the fewer I take care of social norms, group, or I am looking weird. “
I hugged my interests such as messy psychology with astrology and found people who sincerely looked at my worldview.
What I have seen between companions is an example of a detachment that grows older. We learn to get our work tightening to approve. We will run sooner to develop our ideas than to water them.
Alan Watts often talked about the illusions of social identity and how to release it is to see it through it. When the floods understand it, they are stronger than usual judgments.
They focus on humanitarian causes or mental pursuits, feeling free to need a club without fans.
3: Ram
The people of Kho are often described as fiery, courageous and desire. When they are young, they can get in competition trying to get out of others or prove that they are the best. This competitive layer sometimes includes the need for admiration.
But I noticed that because they matured, the ram individuals begin to value their personal freedom over the external praise. They see that it is not stable to pursue the center of attention. Instead of competing for everyone’s attention, they focus on their craftsman on their crafting or living life.
I had a hollow partner that should always be the number one in everything. He was restless if he was not in the center of work. But after a significant change in life, another city realized that the implementation of the approval carries him out.
He began to study a picture of his passions and the campaign without placing each achievement of social media. It seems that he discovered that the self-esteem feels more real moments in private moments, far from noise.
The rams, with their natural leadership, are ultimately learning that the applause of the audience does not need to be applied to their lives.
4. Scorpio
Scorpions have the authority of intensity and depth. They can be mysterious, often keeping their reserves. Early, I have seen some scorpions use social dynamics who is loyal and who.
But when they grow older, they become less worried about who they love them and more wondering who they really understand.
They do not want superficial bonds. They want ties that resonate with their souls. This shift can bring them out of large social circles.
A scorpion friend once told me that he used to tried people’s loyalty to small “friendship checks”. He would see who will respond to his stories or crises in a particular way. But that game was old, and he realized that true loyalty could not be forced or falsified.
Carl Jung spoke about “Shadow Self-Government” that often studies the scorpion. The bigger they are, the more comfortable they get to their dark and the light. They believe that they are the only ratification they need is their acceptance, and it is a powerful place.
5. Sagittarius
Sagittarius is often seen as a zodiac adventure. When they are young, they are curious and social, from a group of tall friends to another. They like to study new places and ideas, sometimes approve of their stories and experience.
But something fascinating happens when the sperm is getting old. They discover that life is an internal journey as it is external. Instead of collecting stamps in their passport, they travel to impress friends, because it feeds their souls.
I remember meeting the Satarius traveler in Bali, which used to emphasize all the places he had visited. He confessed that he had just traveled to have more photos in social media. In time, he realized that a meaningful study had nothing to do with the likes or comments.
The lion once mentioned how prioritizing the internal well-being to a more valid life. Sagittarius embodies this, eventually more caring caring about personal growth than the applause of the audience. They can still share the photos, but now we are talking behind them, not authentication.
Conclusion
The observation of these signs is evolving, it has been taught a lot about the external ratification. Whether the Capricorn focuses on internal success, the Queos mentions the uniqueness, freedom search, scorpion wants depth or bow.
It liberates something about that axis to look outwardly to appearance to enter to the sections.
This reminds me of Berkeley’s well-being studies, which assume that self-awareness and autonomy are the main components of personal happiness. The more we belong to our sweats, passions and restrictions, the less we need to confirm the confirmation of others.
I believe that astrology helps us to recognize these patterns in us. We are not talking about anyone in one feature, but emphasizing the universal topics that speak to our common humanity.
And if we can learn from these five signs, that life becomes richer when we make less applies and more on our leading compass.