The lesson about money, pleasant clothes or knowing which fork should be used during dinner. We are talking about nature, self-consciousness, and how the man is in his world. And let’s be honest. Some guys just don’t have it.
I have been a relationship expert for years, and I have seen that some behavior is dead in a zero lesson.
These are not slightly slip or bad days. These are patterns that show the basic absence of respect, maturity and emotional intelligence.
If you think if a boy is worth your time, or if you just enjoy the low efforts, here are seven clear signs that scream “no class”.
1) he is treated badly to service workers
Nothing reveals a man’s image faster than how people treat people who can’t do anything for him.
If he is a waiters, he negotiates with cashiers or customer service responses, it is simply not rude to a zero class. 3 and respect you don’t have to weaken others to feel important.
Pay attention to this one. The way of treating strangers today is the way he will treat you when the honeymoon phase comes out.
2) He is too heavy-overshaded with being “gentlemen”
Do you think that a guy who keeps doors claims to pay for everything, and it is constantly talking about how women “behave like queens” will be the description of the class. But sometimes it’s just a presentation.
The real lesson is not about Grand Gestures or outdated fishing. We are talking about respect, emotional intelligence and knowing when to advance against.
If a man is constantly showing about his “gendman” ways, ask yourself. Does he do it because he really appreciates others, or because he wants to see a good boy?
True lesson should not be announced. It’s just.
3) he cannot handle the woman
The man respects the woman’s boundaries with the lesson. A man without it. He takes them as a personal insult.
I have seen time and time again. Women set a simple limit, not the area, not planning the area, and he feels that he is “very difficult.”
It’s not a force. It’s an emotional deficiency.
In my book, breaking the app. How to overcome code dependence in your relationship, I’m talking about how the right partner will not guilty to have criteria. The lesson man does not drive or check your limits. He honor them without doubt.
4) He boasts his “honesty”
I have lost about how many men I have told me “I’m just brutally honest” as if it’s kind of virtue. Spoiler. That’s not the case.
There is a big difference between the performance and using the truth as a weapon. A man in the lesson knows how to be straight without being brutal. If he is constantly talking about how he “says it” is “he just enjoys being rude without any consequences.
When Maya Angelu said once.
The man who appreciates honesty and goodness understands that. A person with a zero lesson. He hides “just being real” while tearing others.
5) he / she mentions people to impress
Once I went to a boy who was able to celebrate, in the first ten minutes he “knew a guy” who worked with the famous actor. Did that have anything to do with our conversation? Not at all. But he squeezed there as his life depended on it.
A man in the lesson should not rely on the success of other people to feel important. He is quite confident who he is that he doesn’t need to go down, bow or try to prove his value through the association.
If a boy constantly brings who he knows where he has been, or what an exceptional event has come, ask yourself.
6) He only respects people who find useful
The male of the class treats everyone with respect not only those who can benefit her.
Once I had a friend arriving at a boy who was all the charm and warmth until he met someone he didn’t apply for. Suddenly a false smile disappeared and he couldn’t bother him politely. It is not sure that it is opportunism.
When Albert Einstein once said: “I speak the same way with everyone if he is a garbage man or the chairman of the university.”
A real person is not regulated by his respect, based on someone can do for him. He treats everyone with decency because it is who he is.
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7) He believes that basic decency makes him special
Nothing is more exhaustive than the person who wants to applaud to perform naked minimum.
If he boasts about being “one of the good guys” because he does not deceive, he respects women or takes care of his duties. It’s not the behavior of high value. It’s the main human decency.
It is not necessary for a grade man to treat people well for authentication.
He is not looking for a medal because he “actually hears” or “not like other boys.” If he needs a permanent loan to be just a proper person, it probably means that he is not as decent as he thinks.
The lesson is not performance. That is who you are
The lesson is not about the location, the Grand Gestures or the right things to say in the right moments. It’s about how a person moves around the world when no one is watching.
How does he treat people how he worries anxiety, and he respects others without waiting for anything?
The truth is that if a man lacks class, you will see it with little things. In the manner when he will talk to the waiter, how will he have to have a constant ratification? And when you see it, you can’t see it.
If this article is resonated with you, I recommend watching this video by Justin Brown.
He studies the complications of finding a life partner, making a personal illustration of what is really about relationships, both common values, emotional growth and mutual respect.
If you are serious about people around you who bring the best in you, this is worth your time.
