Language is a powerful tool. It can increase your image or reduce it, often without realizing it.
Being “classy” is not about the clothes you wear, your car or the neighborhood of your living. That’s about how you present yourself to the world. And most of it are the words you choose to use.
Believe or not, there are some common words, more simple people are. Not because they are typical of bad words. But since these words can sometimes design an image that does not correspond to the authenticity and self-esteem, for which we strive for.
In this article, I will share with you seven of these words. So if you are ready to improve your vocabulary and develop a more polished personal brand, read.
1) “Fair”
The word “Just” is a usual and seemingly innocent word. However, Classy individuals tend to avoid this word if possible.
Why causes it to gently disrupt your powers and reduce the importance of what you say? Looks like you apologize for your opinion or request before you even said that.
Consider “I’m just thinking that …” and “I think …” The former is tested, almost as if asked to have an opinion.
Meanwhile, the latter is much more constant and confident. You prove your opinion as a fact, not as something that needs to be confirmed.
The next time you say how you say “fair”, pause and review. You can find that what you say has a greater weight without it.
2) “Perhaps”
“Maybe” is another word that often avoids classical people. One word I used to use it very often.
I remember when I asked me, I want to take part in a certain event. My usual answer will be: “Maybe I’ll see how I feel.”
But over time, I realized that this unexpected response caused me more damage than good. It created an image of indecision and trust.
Classic people are decisive. They know their minds, and they are not afraid to decide and stick it.
Instead of saying “maybe” I learned more clearly with my answers. Now I say. “Yes, I would like to attend” or “No I don’t think I can do it.” It caused a big difference of how others perceive me and how I perceive myself.
3) “literally”
The word “literally” has become a common device in everyday conversations. Its original meaning means that something is true, really or strongly the case without exaggeration.
However, its overuse and abuse have led to her often used to emphasize a point, even when the announcement is not literally. This can lead to confusion and can dilute the effect of what you are trying to say.
It is interesting that “literally” abuse has become so common in English that the dictionary has been updated to include its informal use as a literally reality.
However, classic individuals seek clarity and accuracy in their language. Therefore, they avoid using “literally” as long as it is in its original context, thereby maintaining the integrity and influence of their words.
4) “What”
“What” is often used in random conversations? However, it can come out as a rejection and disrespectful context.
When someone pours out their hearts from you or shares the idea they are passionate, answering random “what” can be harmful. It sends a message that you don’t care what they say or how they feel.
Classical people appreciate the thoughts and feelings of others. They seek to respond with compassion and understanding, making sure that the other person listens and is appreciated.
So, instead, “what” is set by, think, using “I understand”, “I see your point of view,” or “It’s an interesting prospect.” These answers are respected and taking into account the other person’s point of view.
5) “cannot”
“Cant” is a word I had to consciously remove from my vocabulary.
I thought I was saying. “I can’t do it” or “I can’t handle it” when it all got harder. But then I realized that every time I can’t say “I can’t”, I strengthened my own limitations and doubts.
It was a self-prophecy. As far as I said I can’t do something, the more I believe it, and I was less likely to try.
Now, instead of say “can’t”, I say “I will find a way” or “I will try my best.” It is not always easy, but this language movement has helped me overcome the challenges and achieve the things I thought I learned.
Classic people understand the power of words in shaping our reality. They choose words that reflect their strength and flexibility, not their doubts or fears.
6) “hate”
“Hate” is a strong word loaded with negative energy. It is often used to likhip or annoyance, as “I hate traffic” or “I hate broccoli.”
But classical people understand that language forms our perception. By constantly expressing hatred, even for small things can create a negative mindset and influence our common behavior.
Instead, they choose to express their likes in a more balanced way, using “I prefer not in traffic” or “Broccoli is not my favorite.” These statements pass the same message but in a more positive and refined manner.
Remember that your words reflect your personal brand. Select them wisely to design a positivity and class image.
7) Words of Oath
It is usually used in random conversations, while in random conversations, generally avoids classical individuals. They realize that these words can go out as disrespectful and unprofessional and can distort their personal brand.
It is more important that they understand that there is always a more articular way of expressing a way that respects all parties and protects the dignity of conversation.
It’s about being sensible or obsolete, it is about the preservation of respect and decorations in all interactions.
This is perhaps one of the most important things that remembers your vocabulary. Words reflect who we are.
Choose words that increase, inspire and respect. By doing so, you will not only increase your own image, but also contribute to a more respectful and thoughtful discourse.
The power of words
Language is a really strong tool. It just doesn’t give our thoughts and ideas. It forms them. Our words can build bridges or obstacles, inspire or discourage, treat or damage.
Classic people understand this force. They know their words are reflected in their personal brand. Therefore, they choose them wisely, choosing what raises, inspires and respect respect.
Martin Luther King Jr. said in March. “Our lives begin to end the day we are silent for that connection.” This quote eliminates the importance of using our words effectively and responsibly.
When we strive to improve our language and raise our personal brand, remember that we are important words that reflect our real potential. Let’s choose words that not only represent who we are, but also to whom we strive to be.
After all, it is not just about the avoidance of certain words. It is about the promotion of the mentality of positive, respect and self-esteem. Because when we change our words, we can change our world.