We all know someone who seems to be fighting in every relationship, companies, family bonds or romantic connections. They always catch drama, feeling insufficient or interested in why people continue to leave.
At first it may seem bad luck. But the truth is that certain habits can remove people and make it clearer to build a meaningful relationship.
The good news. This behavior is not stone. Recognition of them is the first step in change.
Let’s look at the seven habits that low-quality women tend to have habits that make it difficult to maintain healthy relationships. If this sound is familiar, don’t worry. Awareness is the key to growth.
1) They do everything about themselves
We have all encountered someone like this, the man who always led the conversation to them. No matter how you go through, they find it to become about their own experience, feelings or problems.
At first it seems that they just like to share. But over time, it becomes clear that they do not really hear. They are waiting for their turn to speak.
Healthy relationship requires balance. Two people need to feel audible and appreciated. When someone continually dominates the conversation and ignores the feelings of others, it creates frustration and emotional distance.
If you notice this habit of yourself, try to change your attention. Ask more questions. Listen without directly connecting everything to your own life. People appreciate those who really think about what they say.
2) They thrive on drama
I used to have a friend who couldn’t go for a week without any conflict. If there were no drama in his life, he would create it, inflaming unnecessary arguments, gossiping about others or overheating minor problems.
At first, I thought he was just bad luck with people. But then I realized that the total dominator was her. He seemed to enjoy the chaos, as if he gave the enthusiasm and meaning of his life.
Being around him was exhausting. No conversation was ever peaceful. There was always something that someone would be offended. Eventually, I had to leave me because negativity was drying.
Healthy relationships are built on trust, respect and emotional stability. If you find yourself in the middle of the dram, do a step and ask yourself. I invite this into my life. Peaceful relationships are not boring. They are just healthy.
3) They are never responsible for their actions
Nothing ever is their fault. If the relationship is failing it is because the other person is toxic. If they lose a friend, it’s because that friend was false. If they are called from bad behavior, suddenly they have been sacrificed.
Such a mindset is a unilateral ticket to a broken relationship. No one wants to be around someone who refuses to belong to his own mistakes. It is disappointing, exhaustively and, sincere, minor.
The truth is that we are all messing up sometimes. We say things we should not act, we regret it in ways, and we are hurting people, even if we do not mean.
What distinguishes high-quality women who are fighting in relationships to recognize the ability to recognize it when they are wrong, sincerely apologize.
Indicating everyone can feel easier at this point, but in the long run. It leaves you alone.
4) They expect more than they give
Relationships are a two-way street, but women operate as they are on a one-way road, where everything flows them. They expect permanent support, attention and effort, but when it’s time to withhold, they are suddenly too busy or uninteresting.
I’ve seen it happening in friendship and relationships. Someone will require loyalty but will not return it. They expect great gestures, but they will not make any effort. They want to be a priority, but they never prioritize others.
People eventually are observed when they are accepted. And when they do they are pulling.
If you find you always expecting more than others than you are willing to give, it may be time for a certain self-reflection. Healthy relationships require mutual effort, not only when it is convenient for you, but also all the time.
5) They struggle to control their emotions
All have bad days. We are all disappointed, upset or depressed. But when someone is constantly blinking, he closes, or makes their emotions the problem, it takes them on their relationship.
Studies have shown that emotional intelligence, healthy emotions, is one of the biggest predictions of strong, lasting relationships. However, some women refuse to develop this skill. Instead, they allow each mood rhythm to dictate how they treat others.
For a moment they are kind and loving. Next, they are cold and remote. Small disagreements turn into explosive battles. Instead of communicating, they expect people to “just know” which is wrong. Over time this instability wears down people.
Emotions are valid, but how do you do their questions? If you do not know your feelings, your relationship will always feel like a cycling, not a funny type.
6) They remove people from fear
Not all poisonous habits come from selfishness. Sometimes they come from fear.
Some women have been injured before, so they build walls. They assume that people leave, so they first push them. They struggle to trust so they keep their distance. Even when someone really cares about them, they find reasons to doubt.
I get it. Being people is terrible because it means that they give them the opportunity to hurt you. But shutting down people does not prevent pain. It just guarantees loneliness.
Real connections require vulnerability. It’s good to be careful, but if you never allow anyone, you will never feel deep, meaningful, which really realizes life.
7) They surround the wrong people
The people you choose to keep your thinking about your life, your habits and even your self-esteem. If you are surrounded by negative, drama or poisonous relationships, building healthy connections is almost impossible.
Some women remain within, where gossip, manipulation and competition are the norm. Others choose colleagues who abuse them, but they persuading that it is exactly how love is. Over time, these patterns are even comfortable.
But here’s what. You can’t build a strong, performing relationship if you are constantly surrounded by people who don’t value them. If you want better relationships start to choose better people.
Bottom line
If you know yourself in any of these customs, don’t take it as a recognition that it will give it a chance to grow.
The quality of your relationship is a reflection of your repetitions. The good news. Patterns can change. Self-awareness is the first step.
Start paying attention to how you appear in your relationship. You listen as much as you are talking. Do you take responsibility for your actions? You surround yourself with the right people. Minor changes in behavior can lead to deep connection changes.
At the heart of every healthy relationship is respect for both yourself and others. When you develop, the right people will naturally get you and the mistakes will weaken.
Growth is not about perfection. It’s about progress. And it’s always under your control.