It is not always easy to notice, but it is impossible to ignore once you do once.
Some people walk life, as if they are the main character, and everyone is just a supportive role in their personal film.
It is disappointing, confusing and sometimes even an exhaustive job, especially when they do not seem to notice how their behavior affects those around them.
It’s not about trust or self-confidence. It is deeper, the mindset that makes every situation about them, no matter what.
The conversations feel one-sided, their needs always come first and in some way they manage to bend any scenario about their feelings, their victories.
Here are eight behaviors that psychologists say women are common who believes the world is revolving around them.
1) They dominate each conversation
Talking to them does not feel real conversation. It feels a continuous monologue where you just hear there.
They return to each of them, their experiences, their opinions. Even when you share something personal, they quickly find it a way to connect it to their lives, it is often more significant.
It’s not that they don’t listen to you, but they really don’t listen. Instead of being involved in return exchanges, they are just waiting to talk again.
In time, this may leave them to those around them invisible or insignificant.
2) They rarely give meaningful questions
Talks with them often feel one-sided and part of it, because they are not really interested in others. They can cause superficial problems from politeness, but they rarely deepen or show real interest in what is happening in someone else’s life.
I remember a time when I struggled with a profound personal thing. I finally opened a friend who always seemed to dominate our conversations, hoping for support.
I hardly passed to the first few sentences before he interrupted a story about how he went on “even worse.” The conversation at all was returning to him, and my feelings were brushed aside as they did not matter.
At that moment, I realized that he had never asked a meaningful life of life, not because he had forgotten, but because it was not just a priority for him.
3) they make a mistake for real contact
Psychologist Carl Jung once said: “Everything that looks at us about others can understand us about us.”
People who believe in the world are turning around them, they often want to pay attention, but what they can’t accomplish is not right.
They are looking for certification through the likes, compliments and admiration, but they are fighting for deep, meaningful relations, as they are in the center of how they are perceived, not really connecting with others.
They may prevail social situations, constantly posting on their lives online or expect endless praise from those around them. But when the focus is often, they often don’t feel uncomfortable, because only attention does not replace the real connection depth.
4) They are struggling to resolve criticism; No matter how soft
The human brain is tense to respond to criticism, as if a physical threat. Studies have shown that a negative reaction can intensify the same areas of the brain that respond to pain, so even the smallest criticism can feel uncomfortable.
For women who believe in the world, they turn around them, this worry is turned into an open rejection. Any suggestions that they can need incorrect, unattractive or growth, are met with defense, excuses or even anger.
Instead of thinking feedback, they reject it, blame, or make their victim victim.
Even when someone offers constructive consultation, which means that they will help improve, they see it as a personal attack.
Growth requires self-awareness, but if someone refuses to recognize their shortcomings, they remain the same patterns that only try to help.
5) They do everything about their feelings
Emotions are a natural part of life, but for some people their emotions are not important. They define every situation. If they are upset, everyone around them should stop what they do and comfort them.
If they are happy they expect others to comply with their energy. If they feel insignificant, even imperceptibly, they require an apology and make it known how deep they are wrong.
This makes relationships exhaustive, as each interaction becomes about managing their emotions, not mutual understanding.
Contradictions cannot be fairly resolved, because they prefer their feelings to facts. Even when others are fighting, their own emotions are still coming first.
Instead of taking into account various prospects or realize that other people’s feelings are as valid as they focus on every situation, whether it’s really about them.
6) They expect special treatment
There are rules, borders and expectations for everyone, but somehow they believe that they must be an exception.
Whether he is bypassing a lines, to leave the responsibilities or assuming others must be accommodated without doubt, there is a belief that they deserve more than the average man.
It doesn’t always come in obvious ways. Sometimes it is delicate, as far as everyone is to fully regulate plans or assuming that their mistakes must be forgiven, and against others, and others must be pardoned.
Other times, it is a rude right, as requires special benefactors without doing anything.
At the core of them, they see themselves as different more important, more worthy, more deserving than those around them.
And when people eventually push back. They are shocked because they persuaded themselves to treat everyone in some way unfair.
7) They take more than they give
Relationships. Will friendship, family bonds or romantic cooperation build on the balance and balance of receipt? But with them, that balance is always bent in their favor.
They expect support, time, energy and efforts from others, but in return, they are rarely recommended.
At first it may not be clear. They can thank or admit what others do for them, but when the roles are reversed, they are suddenly very busy, too tired or just uninteresting.
Emotional support becomes a one-way street. Goodness action in their direction but rarely go out.
Over time, this dynamic is down people. Their surroundings begin to feel scattered, unavailable and even used. And when someone finally stops giving.
They do not reflect on their own behavior, instead they are shocked and damage that the generosity of their dependence is no longer there.
8) They do not recognize when they hurt others
When someone believes that the world turns around them, they often don’t see the influence of their actions on the people around them.
It is not necessary to be out of evil, they are simply focused on their own desires, needs and emotions that they can’t notice when they release, selfish or even cruel.
They interrupt without realizing that they have cut someone. They require without consideration of how uncomfortable or exhaustive can be for others. They say bites but brushes any damaged feelings because “it was not their intention.”
The problem is not only that they do not have aware. That’s when they face, they go down or get to take responsibility. Instead of apologizing or configuring their behavior, they make excuses, blame, or act as if the other person overturns.
And when people start to leave them. They think of why, never understood that their inability to recognize their influence is what he removed others.
Bottom line
It is easy to accommodate this behavior in others, but the real challenge is to ask ourselves, have we ever fallen with the same patterns? Self-employment is not about shame. It’s about growth.
Psychologists have long studied the consequences of self-intensity, and one thing is clear. A life that rotates exclusively from him often leads to loneliness.
True bond comes from mutual respect, listen to and consider the needs of others as much as our own.
If any of these behaviors get to know, there is always room for moving. Small changes, asking more questions, using compassion or more open for feedback, can make a difference. Growth is not about perfection. It’s about progress.
At the end of the day, the most fulfilled people do not pay attention, but those who give it freely create a meaningful relationship built on real care and understanding.