There is quite a difference of who is self-assured and narcissist. The difference, you ask.
It all concerns the first impression.
This is interesting. You can often tell someone to meet someone whether you are dealing with the narcissist.
They seem to have received these storytellers, seven accurately so they can’t help but discover.
Next time you get to know you the new one, watch for a moment.
It’s all about recognizing these signs and understanding their effects for your relationship with this individual.
It’s about to judge people or to be unjustly mentioned.
It’s about you to surround yourself with people who respect your personal limits and appreciate you for who you are really.
Let’s dive and discover what these seven marks are.
1) They dominate the conversation
In the first few minutes of meeting someone to meet the new one, it is normal to exchange pleasantness and get to know you.
However, if you find the conversation relies heavily to another person without sharing you anywhere, you can deal with the Narcissists.
Narcissists are inherent, there must be in the center of attention.
The center of attention should always be on them, their achievements, their stories. They seem to make a one-sided show and you’re just a member of the audience.
Don’t make me mistake now. It’s not about talking about the assessment.
But healthy conversations are mainly balanced with equal interest in both sides.
Next time, if in the first five minutes you find you nodded on and without your own big entrance, you mean.
It can be for signs that you deal with Narcissists. But let’s not fall into conclusions. There is still six more signs to look.
2) They have a more inflated feeling of self-medication
A true story. Once I met a guy during a network event.
In the first few minutes of meeting him, he had already managed to tell me about his successful business, his luxurious journeys, and how he was absolutely irreplaceable.
Now there is nothing wrong with your achievements, but this was on another level. He hardly asked me about me or expressed interest what others should have said.
It was as if he was in an individual mission to impress everyone around him.
It was almost fun to watch, but it’s a classic sign of Narcissism.
The need for identity and the need to constantly assure their priority is a big red flag.
If someone speaks only about their majesty and achievements in the first five minutes, you mean that you or their other things around them without real interest.
This can be a sign that you do deal with the Narcissists. But let’s continue; We still have five more signs to study.
3) They show a feeling of right
There is a term in the world of psychology known as “narcissist right.”
This refers to the belief that one is characterized by privileges or special treatment.
Narcissists often show this description to meet them in minutes.
They can expect you to throw everything and listen carefully to their stories, or they can claim your admiration without earning it.
It seems that they believe that the world owes something to them for who they are.
This feeling of the right can be manifested in different ways, monopoly conversations, expecting others to meet their programs or desires.
If you encounter someone who encounters to the first few minutes as a preferential and special treatment, it may be another sign of narcissism.
We are not about to jump to conclusions. We have four more signs to look for.
4) They have no sympathy
Empathy, the ability to understand and distribute the feelings of others is a feature that Narcissists often often fight.
They tend to be more focused on their own feelings and needs, ignoring or ignoring how others feel.
In the first few minutes of meeting someone, you can notice this lack of compassion.
They can dismiss your feelings, to show little interest in your experience, or you can’t accept your prospect.
It’s not that they can’t be cautious. It’s more that they choose. They prefer their feelings in their world to everyone.
If you do deal with someone who looks uninteresting to meet them in the first five minutes, it can be another sign that you deal with the Narcissists.
But let’s continue, there are still three signs.
5) They often interrupt or talk to you
There was a time when I met someone who continued me half a sentence in the first few minutes.
It seems that I didn’t say anything. I didn’t matter.
Each time I tried to do a point I cut and shadowed with their great stories or opinions.
Such behavior is not only disrespectful. It is also a common feature among the narcissists.
They often believe that what they say is more important, more interesting, more interesting, or just better than someone to offer.
If you find that you are constantly talked or constantly interrupted in the first few minutes of meeting someone. It can be another sign of narcissism.
We build a bigger picture here; There are two more signs of discussion.
6) They require constant admiration
Narcissists are deeply necessary for admiration and authentication by others. They are often looking for it and can even demand it, be it gently or openly.
You may notice this need for constant admiration in the first few minutes of meeting someone.
They can have compliments or seek authentications in their achievements, form or ideas.
It seems they are always on the search and confirmation search, as this helps to spoil the already exceeded ego.
If you find someone with compliments or to meet them in the first few minutes to meet, it can be another sign of narcissism.
But lets not turn our judgment. There is another sign to be discussed.
7) They respond badly to criticism
Narcissists often have a fragile feeling under their inflated ego. As a result, they tend to respond badly to criticism, even if it is constructive.
Can you notice that to meet someone in the first few minutes? If they become defensive or become hostile, when they question their ideas, or if they praise it, it is a clear sign of narcissism.
This sensitivity to criticism is not only about maintaining their self-image, but also about the maintenance of control and priority.
They are fighting with the idea that they can be flawless or that there is a place to improve.
This reaction of criticism is probably the most narrator of narcissism.
If you notice that someone becomes defensive or hostile with a slight review of criticism, it is important to notice.
Understanding, not labeling
The nuances of human behavior are often driven by the complex mixture of environmental, psychological and biological factors. Narcissistic tendencies are no exception.
Famous psychologist Abraham Maslow has once suggested that the root of Narcissism may not be the potential of anyone. What he calls self-sufficiency.
He believed that when individuals fail to grow and develop their reality, they can turn to their fascinating image.
Detecting the signs of Narcissism is not going to make them a label in the first few minutes to meet.
We are talking about understanding their behavior, recognizing the possible challenges of communication with them and to make informed decisions about our relationship.
It is important to remember that everyone has a story, the reason for their behavior.
Recognition of Narcissist trends is simply a tool of understanding, not the verdict on the person’s character.
And with this understanding, we can navigate our personal and professional relationship with greater ideas and compassion.