Let me tell you, love is not just about butterflies or romance. It’s also your partner treats you, respects you, and yes proud of them.
I am Tina Fye, founder and relationship expert on love. I have seen countless couples express love in different ways. But something stands out to me when your partner is really proud to have you in life, it is visible in their behavior.
I will share with you the signs that show your partner’s pride and joy in being with you. It all concerns about reading between lines and recognizing those little gestures that are large.
So get ready because we’re going to examine some real relationships.
1) They openly indicate your achievements
You know, love is not only about being there in hard times. It’s also about sharing the joy and success of your partner.
When your partner is really proud to have you in life, they will show it, indicating your achievements, big or small. They may not take a party every minor victory, but their excitement and pride will repent.
It can be as simple as a high-top high after a successful performance, or as great as a surprise dinner to indicate your promotion. The scale is not important here. It’s the wisdom behind the action.
Remember that a partner who is proud of having you in their lives will always be your greatest joy. They will try your victories and motivate you to achieve even greater heights.
So next time you get to something, consider how your partner reacts. It can simply tell how proud they should be with you.
And there is no sincere, sweeter feeling than knowing your partner is really proud of your achievements.
2) they include you in future plans
It has ever been in a conversation where your partner accidentally indicates the plan of two of you, which has been in line for years. It’s a sign, dear reader they are proud to have you in their lives.
When a person sees you as an integral part of their future, it is because they are proud of who you are and what you bring to life. They can’t imagine their future without it, and it’s really special thing.
I remember when my partner first included me in his five-year program, I felt such a depressing feeling of pride and happiness. It was clear that he saw me as part of his future and was proud to have me.
When Audrey Hepbourne once said: “The best thing to keep in life is one another.” If your partner includes you in future plans, keep them on. It means they are proud to be with you and a long, happy future together.
3) They show you to their loved ones
Have you ever noticed how your partner’s face is lighting the world, when they introduce you to their friends or family? It is a clear sign of pride.
When someone is proud to have you as their partner, they want the world to know that. They want to show you and allow everyone to see the amazing man they choose.
I have seen it again, not only in my own relationship, but also in countless couples. The feeling of pride is almost tangible when your partner presents you with such joy and enthusiasm.
In my book, breaking the app. How to overcome code dependence in your relationship, I look deeper, understanding the signs of healthy and balanced relationships. Recognition of these signs is very important because they are the main indicators of your partner’s feelings.
So when your partner introduces you to someone, pay attention to how they do it. Their pride will be shined with you if you look carefully enough.
4) They do not avoid your shortcomings
This can surprise you.
You will think if someone is proud to be called to life, they will only fall on your best qualities, isn’t it? Well, not right.
When your partner is really proud to be with you, they accept your shortcomings and imperfections, and they still choose to love you. They understand that no one is perfect and they appreciate you who you are, warts and everyone.
Believe me or not, discussing your shortcomings with your partner is a sign of strong and healthy relationships. It means that your partner sees real, not an idealized version of who they want to be.
Remember that easy to love someone in their best. But by loving them the worst. It’s completely different.
Next Time You’re Feeling a Little Less Than Perfect, Remember: If Your Partner Sticks by Your Side And Loves You Just The Same, It’s Because Their’re Proud to Have You In Their Life – Flaws and All.
5) They face your side
We’re all there, a friend with a fellow work with a TIFF or Family Feodi. How does your partner react to such situations can you tell you a lot?
If your partner is proud to have you in life, they will stand by your side thick and thin. If necessary, they will protect you, offer support and provide comfortable time during difficult times.
I remember a time when I had a lot of disagreement with a close friend. Was painful and dried. But my partner stood by me. He suggested leaning on his shoulder, if necessary, defended me and assured me that I was not alone.
That means having a partner that is proud to have you in life. These are the column of your strength, your support system and your opinion.
Love is not just about good times. It’s about to stand together against the background of difficulty and getting out of a team.
6) they are not threatening them successfully
Here is a heavy truth. Everyone can handle their partner’s success. Some threaten the threat, others are insecure. But if your partner really is proud of you, they will celebrate your achievements, they are not weak.
Your success is their success. They don’t see it as competition, but as a testimony they have chosen to be.
It’s not always easy. It requires a strong sense of self-worth and secure relationships. But when your partner can really rejoice in your success without feeling overloaded, it is clearly instructed to be the pride of you.
So don’t distract yourself to fit the comfort zone. If your partner is proud of you, they will encourage you to shine as bright as possible. Because they know that your light doesn’t get darker, it only makes the common road brighter.
7) They respect your personal space
Respect in any relationship is non-negotiable. And that includes respect for your personal space.
If your partner is proud to have you, they will respect your space and loneliness. They understand that everyone needs time for themselves to charge, reflect or just relax.
I remember my partner once told me. “Your area is holy and I honor it.” It meant a lot to me. It was shown that he not only respected my personal space, but also proud of my independent man.
According to Rollo, to be able to open the loneliness for creative use for creativity. ” Partner that respects and encourages this loneliness appreciates you as an individual.
So remember if your partner respects your personal space is because they are proud of the person you are, regardless of and unique.
8) They don’t try to change you
This is as real as it turns out. A partner who is proud of you that you will not try to change the essence of what you are in their life.
They fell in love with you to be, not who wants you to be. They cherish your sweats, your passions, your values - all things that make you unique.
Of course, we can all grow and develop in a relationship, but it differs from changing human fundamentally. If your partner tries to form you in someone you are not, it’s not a sign of pride or love. It’s a sign of control.
But when your partner loves and respects you who you are, imperfections and everyone, when you know they are really proud to have them in their lives.
True love is not trying to change. It accepts and covers. So be unnoticed by yourself. The right person will be proud to love you as you are.
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Being in a relationship where your partner is really proud to be really special than you. They celebrate your achievements, standing next to you, and respect your personality.
Remember that these signs are not about great gestures or expensive gifts. It’s about small, consistent behavior that shows their love and pride in you.
If you are looking for more ideas in a healthy relationship and overcome code dependence, I invite you to check my book by breaking the app. How to overcome the code?
Love is a beautiful journey and having a partner who is proud to travel with you, makes it more valuable. That’s what loves, supports and prides and prides with each other.