If you crossed the 60-year mark, it’s time to reflect. You’ve probably experienced a few high and low. Have you seen victories and failures?
And that’s life.
But what does it mean to win in life? It is not about the wealth of his gathered or the recognition of his recognition. It’s more delicate than that.
So turn away when we look what these things are. If you have reached them 60, you truly win in life.
Spoiler Alert. Everything is about self-knowledge, authenticity and consistent growth.
1) Have you developed a strong sense of self-consciousness
Self-awareness is a complex beast.
It’s about knowing who you are in your nucleus, your strengths, weaknesses, passions and fears. It’s about understanding your reactions, your functions and why certain things make you feel like you do.
And that’s not something that comes easily. It takes a constant invasion, willingness to resist the inconvenience and the courage, defects, and everyone.
But by 60, if you have reached this level of self-knowledge, you will definitely win life. Why because knowing yourself is the first step to live true and target?
You have no longer turned with others’ opinions or moved with flight trends. Instead, you are justified in your own truth, making choices that match who you are and what you believe.
It’s a real victory in anyone’s book.
2) You have learned to hug the failure
Failure to swallow a bitter pill.
I remember my first business starts in my 20s. I was young, ambitious and absolutely convinced that I was going to change the world.
But everything was divided into a year. Business failed and I stayed with nothing but the debt mountain and a bruised ego.
It was hard. There were nights when I asked my value, my abilities and even my dreams. But now looking at, I realize that it was one of the best things I had ever happened to me.
Why because it taught me flexibility? It made me withstand my flaws and grow from them. It showed me that failure is not the end of the road, but the move on the way to success.
And that’s why by 60 if you have learned to hug failure, not be afraid, you truly win in life. Failure is not just about losing. It’s about to grow, learn and become self-gain.
And that’s a victory that is worth celebrating.
3) You have mastered the art of equilibrium
In Japan, there is a concept called “Ikigai”. It is a lifestyle that aims to balance the four main elements of life. What do you like, what do you need, for what?
Find your Ikigai means you found in harmony with your life. It’s the sweet spot where your personal passions and talents meet the needs of your surrounding world.
If you have found this balance between 60, ambitious and satisfaction, giving and accepting, and accepting, and you really win in life.
Because life, at its axis, everything is about balance. And possession is one of the biggest achievements that can achieve.
4) You have developed deep and meaningful relationships
Relationships are the spice of life.
They bring joy, support and enrich our lives in countless ways. But developing deep and meaningful relationships is not an easy task. It requires time, effort and very emotional investments.
If you have dropped to build and maintain such relationships. Be it with friends, family or colleagues, then you truly win in life.
The word at the end of the day is not about how many people you know, but how deeply you are related to them.
These relationships are the pillars of your life, providing emotional support and increasing wealth for your life experience. And it really deserves to celebrate.
5) You have learned to say “no”
For a long time I struggled with saying “no”. I was the quinted people, I am pleased, I am always ready to go the extra mile so that others may be happy, even if it meant sacrifices my own needs and desires.
But over the years I have learned a valuable lesson. Saying “no” is not in self-esteem. It’s about self-esteem. It is about to define boundaries and respect my own time and energy.
If by 60, you have learned to say “no” when you need, then you really win in life.
Confirming your boundaries is an essential part of maintaining your mental health and maintenance of overall well-being. And that’s really worth achieving.
6) You have slipped
By our fast-paced world, it is often seen as a sign of success. But there is a huge value in hugging the spaciousness.
It’s quiet moments we find clarity. It’s time when we can still hear our inner voice and understand what our hearts really wants.
So if you have learned to assess the strength of calm and integrate into your life, you truly win in life.
Success is not only about permanent movement and urgency, it also refers to when to stop, reflect and just be.
7) You have found a purpose that pushes you
Aiming is like having a compass. It gives direction to your life.
It takes you out of bed in the morning, litles your passion and drives you to overcome obstacles. It makes sense to your actions and add value to your life.
Finding this goal is not always easy. It often includes a lot of soul search and self. But after finding it, it can transform your life.
It is not only about achieving goals, it is about life and performance life.
8) You have learned to love yourself
The most important relationship at the end of the day you will ever have is yourself.
Loving yourself refers to who you are, flaws and all. It’s about yourself with kindness and compassion yourself, indicating your achievements and forgive yourself for your failures.
If you have learned to really love yourself, you just don’t win in life, you are possessing it.
Self-esteem is not just about feeling good about yourself, it’s about to recognize your value and reflect life.
Winning in life is not about the finish line
When we travel through turns and life turns, it is easy to lose sight of what is really important. Catch and forget about the essence of living in the rats.
If you excluded these 8 achievements by 60, you’re just going through motion, you really live.
You specify self-knowledge, nourishing relationships, balancing the elements of life, accepting the failure, enjoying the purpose, and the most important thing to love yourself.
It’s not about accumulating finish line or cups. Life is not competition. It’s about to develop yourself and find joy in the journey.
Every day is a new opportunity to grow, study and love. Become more aware and authentic. Elections to reflect your real potential.
So take a moment. Think about your journey so far. Specify your victories, learn from your losses and continue to grow.
Remember that real victory does not lie “all that” in “everything”. To stay true to yourself and to live with your own terms.
That’s what to win it is all about.