Some men look like charming, attentive and kind until you start not to notice cracks. They say: But it feels something.
The truth is that some men are not really beautiful. They just know how to play part.
Psychology shows that some subtle behavior can identify their true nature, even when they try to hide it. These are not obvious red flags. They are quiet warning signs that most people ignore.
If you have ever had a feeling that someone wasn’t as nice as he seemed to gather a chance on one of those behaviors. Here are seven signs of tracking.
1) They are kidding on your account
It seems harmless at first. A little excitement here and there, maybe a sarcastic comment that makes others laugh. But if you pay attention, you will notice an example. These “jokes” always come to your account.
Psychology calls this nonsense. A delicate way of lowering someone’s self-esteem by caving it as a humor. It’s a tactic used to maintain control, forcing you to guess the second to yourself when they have to play it as “just joking.”
A really nice guy doesn’t have to get you down to get ridiculous. If a man constantly puts you on the punch line, especially in front of others, it is not good, it is a manipulation as a charm.
2) they agree with you a lot
At first it looks like a good thing. He’s always by your side, nodding, agreeing with everything you say. No argument, no disagreements. Just pure harmony.
But here is the catch. Real people have real opinions. When someone constantly agrees with you, it’s not because they really see you with you, that’s because they want to stay with your good gifts.
Psychology calls this mirror tactics used to create quick confidence, reflecting your thoughts and emotions to you.
At first it feels authenticating. But over time, you start noticing that he never has a real position on anything. And when everything is tough. That facade cracks and suddenly he is no longer “pleasing.”
3) They do “nice” things but only when people follow
Some guys like to show a show. I will open doors, offer to pay for dinner or go out of the way to help themselves, but only when audience happens.
Private, it’s a different story. Thought gestures disappear, and suddenly that opinion is no longer careful. Psychology refers to it as an impression management. How others perceive them in a minimum minimum minimum.
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When someone’s kindness performs performance, it can question you your own criteria for real care and support. And the truth is, real goodness does not need a audience. It’s just.
4) They apologize but nothing never changes
Apologies are easy. Change is difficult. And some men have mastered the art of saying “I’m sorry” without ever.
It sounds honest at first. He confesses what he did, he promises to do better, and maybe even a small self-worth the mood. But then it happens again. And again. Same errors, the same apologies, the same cycle.
A real apology is not just words. It’s an action. If he is constantly saying sorry but never changes, he’s not nice. He’s just holding you long enough to let it go again.
5) They give you compliments that do not make compliments
- “You are not like other girls.”
- “Wow, I didn’t expect you to be this smart.”
- “You really look really good today.”
Some men hide criticism as flattery. It sounds like a compliment on the surface, but something feels about it … turned off. This is that such statements are not called to raise you, they intend to feel you noticed at all.
I have had my just share of these so-called “compliments”, and I will be honest when I was small, I was falling for them. I thought that being “different” or “amazing” was a good thing.
But over time, I realized that real compliments do not come with a hidden insult. They don’t give you you. They just make you feel good.
6) They make a victim when you call them out
The moment you stop you from one thing, he sighs, hurts, and suddenly. You are a bad guy.
Instead of listening, he walks around the situation. Maybe he had a rude day. Maybe he “just tried everything”? Maybe you are too sensitive? Before you know it, you’re the man who apologizes even though he was wrong.
Really beautiful guy is responsible for his actions instead of issuing excuses or guilt to have you standards. If every conversation about his behavior is somewhat ending to comfort you, it is not kind, it’s a manipulation.
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7) They feel guilty of having bounds
A really nice boy respects your limits. False one feels bad for them.
Maybe he sneeks when you say no. Maybe he’s joking about how “difficult” you are when you stand your land. Maybe he’s doing away or cold until the cave? It’s fine, but the message is always the same. Your needs are awkward.
Here is the raw truth. If a person will not be able to handle your boundaries, that is that he benefits from you to have nothing to do. Nice is not about wonderful gestures or sweet words. It’s about respect.
And if he only respects you when it’s easy for him, he really never respects you.
Why “nice” does not always seem to
We often say we have a “beautiful boy”. Someone polite, carefully and well-formed. But as we have seen, it’s nice to be an action. Performance. A way to acquire an institution without the substance under its true kindness.
True kindness does not mean to say the right things or put a charming front. It’s about consistency, respect and integrity. It’s about how someone is treating you when there is nothing to win, there is no eye to watch and pay for their actions.
If you have ever found you suspect your instinct about you who looks very nice you are not alone. It is easy to confuse the charm character, especially when someone knows how to participate in that part.
But recognizing this delicate behavior allows people to see people who are actually they are, not only who they pretend.
To make a deep dive to find the right type of understanding and a partner. Someone who is really kind, not only does this video.
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