There is an undeniable connection between our childhood experience and our adults.
For example, take micro-systemal parents. If every detail of your life was examined and controlled, it was probably some interesting ways to form your personality.
Growing up with parents who can lead to the development of certain adult properties. These properties, while are often seen as negative, can actually be positive in a positive manner if they are right and managed.
In this article, we will look at 7 common properties that are often observed in individuals who had microscopic parents. Not as guilty or shame, but as a means of self-determination, authenticity and personal growth.
Remember that every feature is a two-way sword. How do you use, decide whether it becomes strength or weakness.
1) Perfection
Growing up under a thorough clock of sterilizing parents, can often be involved in an individual’s improvement in an individual.
This feature is manifested in flawless flawless pursuit. It’s about setting high quality standards and criticizing for any mistakes.
Perfection is not necessarily a bad thing. It pushes the ambition, attention to the details and continuously to improve. It’s a feature that can separate you in your professional life.
However, it is important to remember that everyone makes mistakes. Perfection is impossible standard and constantly strives to cause stress and burning.
So if you find that you are too critical to your job, remember to cut yourself. Accept the journey of continuous growth and improvement, not to fix an inaccessible ideal of improvement.
2) Failure
I have noticed that one of the qualities I developed by increasing with micro-shaped parents, overthrow.
Each decision, no matter how small a high stake gambler feels. What to do if I make a wrong choice? What to do if things don’t go as planned? “What if if” can be endless?
For example, wearing what to wear on accident can turn into a leisure course. I find it analyzing every possible scenario. Will it be too hot for the sweater? This is too formal. It’s exhausting.
This feature, however, has its merits. It makes me more analytical and detail. It helps me to see all the possible results before making a decision.
However, it is very important to remember that the failure often leads to excess stress. Sometimes it’s good to trust your instincts and go with the flow. After all, not all of the decision does not need a PRO-CON list.
3) High level of self-confidence
Growing under Permanent Control can promote the feeling of self-confidence of adults. This may seem counterattack, but it is a natural response to an environment where autonomy is limited.
In a study published in the magazine and family study, controlling parents were found to develop a high level of self-confidence.
These individuals often feel the need to take on their own life because they may not have much control over their personal decisions.
This feature can be a two-way sword. On the one hand, it can lead to strong leadership skills and independence. On the other hand, it can lead to difficulty asking for help or in collaboration with others.
The main thing self-confidence has balanced the understanding that sometimes it is good to rely on others. After all, we are all interconnected in some ways.
4) Proactive planning
Children of microscopic parents often become adults who are unique to planning ahead.
When you grow up in an environment where every detail of your life is studied, you naturally tend to predict and prepare for different scenarios.
This can be translated into stabbing for strategic thinking and practical planning.
You can find your day mapping to create emergency plans for thorough or possible obstacles.
This can be great active in both personal and professional settings, which allows you to effectively manage your time and easily handle unpredictable challenges.
However, it is important to remember that it is good if things do not always go according to plan.
Flexibility and adaptability are equally important qualities to life unpredictable turns and turns to navigate.
5) Fear of failure
One of the features that may be a stinky child spring is deep fear of failure. It’s a feeling that I know very well.
Growing up, my parents had great expectations, and there was little room for the mistake. As a result, I found myself horrified to make mistakes, always guessing my decisions the second.
Even now, as an adult, this fear is often educated on the head. There is always a worrisome discomfort that I can not meet expectations, or that I can disappoint those around me.
Although this fear can make me strive for more difficult and better, it can sometimes paralyze, causing excessive stress and anxiety.
But every day I remind me that failure is good. Failure is not a reflection of self-esteem, but reflects the inevitable part of growth and learning.
After all, the most valuable lessons of life are learning through our failures, not our success.
6) The sensitivity of criticism
Children of microscopes can become adults that are especially sensitive to criticism.
This sensitivity is often derived from childhood where criticism or negative reaction was frequent. As a result, even constructive criticism is difficult to take and can feel personal attack.
Although this feature can be more self-informed and improved, it is important to remember that not all criticism is a bad thing. Constructive reaction is an important tool for growth and development both in person and professionally.
It is an important step towards the criticism of accepting and learning the teaching, not to see it as a personal attack in personal development.
It allows you to turn what can be a negative experience in the positive increase in growth.
7) Durability
Perhaps one of the most important qualities that can develop from microcedive upbringing is flexibility.
Through a child, where each action was controlled or studied, these individuals often develop a strong ability to jump from adversity. They have learned to adapt to difficult situations and find strength in their experiences.
Resilience is a powerful feature that helps individuals navigate the ascent and fall of life with grace and courage. It is a testament to their ability to grow challenges and turn them into learning opportunities.
And remember that flexibility is not about denying or suppressing emotions, but rather recognizing them and use them as catalysts for personal growth and self-consciousness.
By accepting your unique story
It is a unique story in the heart of each individual, and for those who grew up with micro-shaped parents, that story bears a special range of properties.
These properties that were born of a controlled environment are not chains that connect you, but tools that form you. They contribute to your flexibility, your attention to details, your ability to improve your ability and adapt to your ability.
Rather than watching these qualities as a child’s childhood consequences, they consider themselves clear aspects of your personality that you can surprise personal growth and self-knowledge.
Remember that our past forms us, but we don’t define us. The properties of our developments are not stone, but are flammable parties that can be transformed and transformed when we grow and develop.
Each feature thread is tangled in tapesten, who are you? The main thing is to understand these threads and weaving them with their intentions and authenticity.
According to Karl Jung. “The privilege of life must become who you are really.” Accept your unique story and use it as a pro-a-favor, guiding future that reflects your real potential.